Ii Samuel 2

There is nothing wrong about being attracted to the opposite sex. God made us that way. Such natural drives are intended for our pleasure and such will be the case as long as we don't cross and moral barriers. David saw that Bathsheba "was very beautiful in appearance" (2 Sam 11:2). Had he left it at that, everything would have been fine. "But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death." (James 2:14-015).
-Neil T Anderson; Overcoming Addictive Behavior; [c]2003
-Neil T Anderson; Overcoming Addictive Behavior; [c]2003